For too many though, Memorial Day is about the start of summer for barbeques, going down to the shore and family time. It's not a bad way to spend the day. It's the sort of thing that a person can only truly appreciate by having experienced it his or her self and as much as I believe everyone should understand such a solemn occasion it is, I don't wish for people to suffer unnecessarily.
My heart goes out to those who have sacrificed so that not all have to feel such pain.